I wouldn't want to stay somewhere unwelcoming, but if my choices are:
rule out numerous vacations and chances to visit people because no hotel will put me up
or
deal with some people being mildly rude or disapproving, but get to enjoy my life
then yes, I might stay somewhere that didn't want me.
In fact, I travel places where people don't want me all the time. I'm legally blind, and I tend to make people uncomfortable. Just walking about and living my life I often make drivers highly uncomfortable. They see the cane and panic, often doing stupid things. Just yesterday, I was waiting at a light to cross, not even off of the sidewalk, when a car stopped at a green, waited, it turned yellow, then red, then I crossed. I wish the driver hadn't done that, but there wasn't much I could do. I crossed properly with the light.
Someday I will have a wheelchair. I'll be one of the most difficult combinations for people to wrap their heads around or know how to deal with - a blind female in a wheelchair. There will be places more okay with that and less okay with that, but really, I don't expect anywhere will ~want~ me. But I don't want to let that keep me from living where I want to live or let that keep me from going places. I'm sorry that my existence makes others uncomfortable, even when they wouldn't need to act any differently because of me, but I'd rather they learn to deal than I constantly limit my options to cater to their discomfort. I'd have to seriously warp my life and give up on so many things people take for granted to do that, and I would imagine the same is true of a homosexual couple. And why should they?
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Date: January 10th, 2007 09:44 pm (UTC)From:rule out numerous vacations and chances to visit people because no hotel will put me up
or
deal with some people being mildly rude or disapproving, but get to enjoy my life
then yes, I might stay somewhere that didn't want me.
In fact, I travel places where people don't want me all the time. I'm legally blind, and I tend to make people uncomfortable. Just walking about and living my life I often make drivers highly uncomfortable. They see the cane and panic, often doing stupid things. Just yesterday, I was waiting at a light to cross, not even off of the sidewalk, when a car stopped at a green, waited, it turned yellow, then red, then I crossed. I wish the driver hadn't done that, but there wasn't much I could do. I crossed properly with the light.
Someday I will have a wheelchair. I'll be one of the most difficult combinations for people to wrap their heads around or know how to deal with - a blind female in a wheelchair. There will be places more okay with that and less okay with that, but really, I don't expect anywhere will ~want~ me. But I don't want to let that keep me from living where I want to live or let that keep me from going places. I'm sorry that my existence makes others uncomfortable, even when they wouldn't need to act any differently because of me, but I'd rather they learn to deal than I constantly limit my options to cater to their discomfort. I'd have to seriously warp my life and give up on so many things people take for granted to do that, and I would imagine the same is true of a homosexual couple. And why should they?